Bother Meaning

UK /ˈbɒðər/
US /ˈbɑːðər/
Word Definition
bother meaning

Bother Definition & Usage

verb

To make someone feel upset, irritated, or inconvenienced, often due to minor disruptions.

Examples

  • "It really bothers me when people talk during the movie."
  • "She was bothered by the constant noise outside her window."
  • "Don't bother me while I'm working on this project."
  • "The delay bothered him, but he tried to stay patient."
  • "It doesn't bother me if you're late, as long as you communicate."
verb

To make an effort to do something, often despite not having to or feeling reluctant.

Examples

  • "She didn’t bother to clean the house before the guests arrived."
  • "If you're not busy, could you bother to pick up some groceries?"
  • "I didn’t bother calling him back because he never answers."
  • "He didn’t even bother to explain himself after the incident."
  • "Do you think she will bother to reply to the email?"
verb

To interrupt or disturb someone, often in a way that is considered unnecessary or inconsiderate.

Examples

  • "Sorry to bother you, but can I ask a quick question?"
  • "I hate to bother you during your vacation, but we need your signature on this document."
  • "It doesn’t bother me if people stop by unannounced."
  • "The kids keep bothering their mother while she’s on the phone."
  • "She felt bad about bothering him with her personal problems."

Cultural Context

The word 'bother' has its roots in Middle English, deriving from the Old French 'boter,' meaning to disturb. Its use in modern English reflects its long-standing association with mild annoyance and inconvenience.

The Uninvited Guest

Story

The Uninvited Guest

Sarah had just finished a long day at work. She was exhausted and looking forward to a quiet evening at home. As she sat down on the couch with a book, a knock at the door made her sigh. She wasn’t expecting anyone. Slowly, she opened the door to find her neighbor, Tom, standing there with a sheepish grin. 'Hi Sarah, sorry to bother you, but do you have any sugar? I’m all out, and I’m in the middle of making dinner.' Sarah paused for a moment, annoyed by the interruption, but she couldn’t say no. 'It’s fine, come in,' she said, trying to mask her frustration. She fetched the sugar and handed it over, but Tom was still standing there. 'I also didn’t want to bother you, but I was wondering if you could give me a hand with something?' he asked hesitantly. Sarah didn’t want to seem rude, but she had plans for the evening. 'Well, I was planning to relax. What is it that you need help with?' she asked, trying to keep her voice polite. Tom explained that his car had broken down just down the street, and he needed help pushing it to the repair shop. Sarah couldn’t really refuse him, but as she followed him outside, she couldn’t help but feel a little bothered by how often Tom seemed to ask for help. It wasn’t the first time. After pushing the car a few blocks, Sarah was feeling even more frustrated. 'You really didn’t have to bother me with all this,' she said, wiping her brow. Tom apologized again, but Sarah’s annoyance had faded. She realized he genuinely needed help, and sometimes, you just have to bother people. As they finished the task, Sarah couldn’t help but feel a sense of accomplishment. That night, she sat down again with her book, more appreciative of the quiet—no more knocking at the door, no more bothersome interruptions. But she also knew she would help Tom again if he asked, no matter how much it bothered her at times. Maybe sometimes, it’s worth a little bother to help a neighbor.

The Uninvited Guest